The fear and uncertainty we all are feeling related to COVID-19 is real, and it is understandable. During so much uncertainty, one thing you can control is who speaks for you if you cannot speak for yourself. During your life there may come a time when you or a member of your family may be asked to make difficult decisions about your health care. You may make these future decisions easier on your loved ones by communicating your wishes now by talking with them openly and completing the proper legal documents.
Advance directives are forms that outline the care you would like to receive or not receive if you are unable to speak for yourself. The two main documents are the Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care and a Living Will. These forms do not have to be completed by an attorney, however they do need to be signed and/or notarized. The most important part of completing these documents is making sure you have conversations about them with your loved ones so they know your wishes.
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When you are making decisions and completing your advance directives, think about the following situations:
- If you have a sudden illness, like COVID-19
- If you have a severe accident
- If you become terminally ill
Consider what type of treatment you would want in each of these situations. Write your wishes clearly and then discuss your wishes with your healthcare representative and loved ones. Start the conversation answering common questions, like “What is most important for you to live well?” and “What worries you the most about the situation?”
There’s no way to tell if a sudden illness like COVID-19 could affect your life and leave you unable to make decisions. The best time to make an advance directive is when you are healthy, of sound mind, and not worried about a health condition. As you age and your health changes, it is important to review, update, and communicate your wishes.